We Can't Win

I was told
To distance myself from a situation
When it makes me nervous
But I don't want distance
When distance always seems to be the thing
That comes and hurts us

We can't win
How can I feel alright
When I'll hate myself for it?
And this feeling
In the back of my head since I woke up
I can't ignore it

The Goon Sax, We Can't Win, em We're Not Talking (2018)